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Your team needs some kind of protection. If you’re on A Big Adventure you need a support structure. Projects create change. Change makes waves through the organization. And change creates stress for people. Your project is a temporary structure within the host organization.
A tent is the fantastic metaphor for the temporary structure that tries to maintain the resilience in your project. And yes, this is part of the “change/project management strategy focused on culture and using an adventure travel metaphor”. Yes. I know!
Think about it as a hospital tent set up in a field. It allows the doctors to perform surgery isolated from what happens around them. It provides focus and shelter. It’s not a fortress. The walls are thin and allow for surrounding noises to enter. It’s put up when needed and taken away when it has served its purpose.
In this exercise you discuss with the group how their ideal tent would look like.
What kind of material? What information can get out, or what information should stay in the tent? How do you make sure you can get along on a small confined space for a period of time?
This is a drawing and discussion exercise and is part of The Gathering. Kind of like the Vehicle exercise or What Does Your Swing Look Like?
This is a visual representation of the metaphor.

Comfort Zone.
Everybody has a comfort zone. A particular environment in which they feel save and … uhm … comfortable.
As perfectly described by Havi Brooks: “The more safety you have, the easier it is to mess around, take risks, play with being king or queen of your world.”
This sounds like a paradox. By staying in your comfort zone, by operating from a safe structure, you’ll feel more secure to take risks. But on your own conditions. Operating from within your own context.
How does your comfort zone look like?
You can ask for examples. Or use these posts for inspiration.
In / Out.
What kind of information or stuff do you need to get into the tent to do your job, and what do you want to keep outside? Sun provides warmth in the tent, but the tent should keep the rain outside. Wow! Metaphor!
If everybody has access to the right and real information, better and faster decisions would be made. So all information should be public. But throwing all our stuff into the open also has a drawback.
Transparency makes sure people’s behavior will be noted around the globe. Although with a good reputation a lot is to gain, having a bad rep puts a lot at stake. So people will play things save. When stress is on the system, when changes occur and resilience is required, transparency leads to mediated information flow and “playing-it-safe” behavior.
What should enter and what should be blocked?
Boundaries.
After having discussed the comfort zones and what should be in and out of the tent, it’s time to look at how this can be achieved. How are the boundaries set up and maintained?
Let me provide an example of a boundary.
Setting up dedicated time slots for asking questions so people don’t continuously interrupt each other. Regular short meetings with some key stakeholders where they can ask questions or perform some other interrupt will regulate the information flows. If people know they will be helped, they’ll wait. If they have no idea, they’ll just keep on ripping up that tent you just put up.
There are also more non-obvious borders. The language used, the way you say “no” for example, creates a boundary.
I recommend this post for additional inspiration where I asked readers how they create an environment for themselves in which they can be totally themselves, focused, have room, not be interrupted and at the same time be accessible for requests and aware of information from others? You can find some great advice in the comments.
Secure.
Suppose you have your tent ready. Party Tent. Party Hats. Guitars rocking’. You enter the host organization to put up your tent. Or. Using Big Words. You want to embed the temporary social system into the larger more static social system.
How do you secure your tent? How do you make sure the rest of the organization doesn’t run over your tent?
How do you make sure The Others are respecting your boundaries?
When running projects with cultures different from the host organization, you have to think about the shock wave that precedes the project and the legacy it leaves behind. I suggest this post for inspiration.
Summary.
The finale of this exercise is to ask the participants to draw what their tent looks like. Size. Material. Shape. They don’t have to limit themselves not to tents, they can also use other temporary structures, like a sukkah.
Bas, this is a challenging exercise.Who would I accompany? How diverse are we? What are the boundaries for mutual trust?
I would say I would select Bas de Baar, Lori,Charels de Prabakar and three unkown people. What will happen inside the temporary structure. Let me think
Glad you are well and back Ali! Yes, this exercise is suited for any group or team. Glad to be on your expedition
Great company. I want creativity and flow in.
Ooo, I like this exercise very much. Here’s my tent!
Size = fluid (individual person size to forest-size)
Materials = trees, groups, relationships, people
Shape = fluid, moving, evolving
So the first image that came to mind for me is a large collection of overlapping trees. Each of my self-organizing groups could sit together under its own tree, move around at will to join the others, plus there would be at least one shelter tree for every self-organizing group of each of my self-org group members. Individuals are the boundary keepers (feeling who is safe and who isn’t to let in). However, all individuals are part of groups that push and pull them to keep smartly expanding those boundaries, seeing more and more “others” as “us” and therefore as safe. Group members, secure together, regularly opt to expand and pull in diverse others. Group members who move away hold on to the connection and the security the group gives them.
Walls and more-formal tents are erected by those who need them. I like to visit them, but most of the time I prefer the flexibility of living under lots of trees and being able to remake our groups and ourselves at will. Because I see our shelter as the groups, people, and trees around me. Our security lives within our relationships of friendship, love, joy, closeness. Those who show up looking to tear down our tent can’t even find it because our shelter is invisible to those who aren’t close enough to us to see it. Those that do get close enough may decide to join us or to move away from us, but they lose interest in tearing it down.
This temporary tent is, surprisingly, permanent. Everything can, and does, change around it. Yet within it, our connection to each other grows quietly and persistently.
Fun exercise!
Gee, wow! Thanks for participating and sharing the results! I think I might do more with these exercises. Thanks for the inspiration.
This quote about shelter came across my desk this morning and I thought of you…
“On life’s journey Faith is nourishment, virtuous deeds are a shelter, wisdom is the light by day and right mindfulness is the protection by night. If a man lives a pure life nothing can destroy him. If he has conquered greed nothing can limit his freedom.” -Buddhist Quote
That is one awesome quote! Thanks. This fits perfectly with another quote from you I have save in Evernote
“From my perspective, our individual selves are boundary keepers and our self-organizing group selves are boundary expanders/erasers/illusion lifters.”
http://www.collectiveself.com/frequently-asked-questions/have-you-seen-evil-self-organizing-groups/
I am collecting quite a collection of phrases from your blog